The Sultry & Sacred Podcast

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This is not jut another 'sex podcast'. 

How to Talk About Sex: East vs. West

In the inaugural episode of 'Sultry and Sacred', hosts Venus Salem and Cinderella Nabil explore the intricate relationship between pleasure, intimacy, and self-mastery. They delve into the cultural complexities surrounding sexuality, the impact of upbringing on sexual attitudes, and the pervasive themes of shame and guilt that often accompany discussions of sex. Through personal stories and professional insights, they aim to create a space where taboos dissolve, healing begins, and the sultry meets the sacred. The conversation emphasises the importance of self-worth, the ritualistic nature of sex, and the celebration of femininity as integral to experiencing true intimacy.
 

The Real Love Languages

 
In this episode, Venus and Cinderella delve into the concept of love languages, exploring their depth beyond the traditional five categories. They discuss the influence of archetypes, the fluidity of love languages, and the importance of self-awareness and communication in relationships. The conversation also touches on cultural perspectives, personal experiences, and the shadow side of love languages, emphasising the need for curiosity and presence in expressing love.
 

Attachment Styles in the Bedroom

In this conversation, Venus and Cinderella explore the intricate relationship between attachment styles and their impact on love, intimacy, and sexuality. They discuss how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, the role of therapy and self-love in healing, and the significance of plant medicine in personal growth. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of conscious connections and the need to address shame in order to foster healthier relationships. Throughout the discussion, they share personal insights and practical advice for navigating the complexities of attachment in romantic and sexual contexts.
Takeaways
Attachment styles influence how we connect with others.Childhood experiences shape our adult relationships.Healing is possible; attachment styles are not fixed.Self-love is crucial for healthy relationships.Plant medicine can aid in emotional healing.Conscious relationships require mutual investment.Shame can manifest differently in anxious and avoidant individuals.Communication is key in navigating triggers in relationships.Understanding attachment styles can improve sexual intimacy.Relationships are mirrors reflecting our inner work.
Titles
Exploring Attachment Styles in RelationshipsThe Connection Between Attachment and Sexuality
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Attachment Styles02:23 Understanding Attachment Styles05:02 The Impact of Attachment on Relationships10:10 Attachment Styles and Sexuality15:28 Navigating Anxious and Avoidant Dynamics17:15 Healing Through Self-Reflection23:29 The Role of Gender and Energy in Attachment28:01 Ghosting and Communication in Relationships30:56 The Interplay of Sex and Self-Relationship33:21 Understanding Shame in Relationships35:59 The Impact of Attachment Styles40:00 The Importance of Being Intentionally Single43:33 Shame and Societal Expectations47:20 Triggers and Self-Reflection in Relationships49:51 Navigating Attachment Styles in Relationships52:58 From Attachment-Driven Love to Conscious Connection56:23 The Role of Plant Medicine in Healing
 

Consent بالعربي Part 1

Summary
In this episode of Sultry and Sacred, hosts Cinderella and Venus delve into the complexities of sexuality, consent, and emotional health. They explore the anger and sadness surrounding societal expectations, the importance of consent in relationships, and the myths surrounding marriage. The conversation also touches on the impact of cultural influences on personal relationships and the significance of communication in navigating desire and rejection. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they aim to empower listeners to embrace their autonomy and challenge societal norms. In this conversation, Cinderella and Venus explore the complexities of personal responsibility in relationships, the importance of human education regarding body safety, and the societal myths surrounding sexuality. They emphasize the need for open communication and consent, the psychological effects of childhood conditioning, and the empowerment of children to express themselves. The discussion also highlights the role of parents in fostering independence and the journey towards self-respect and freedom.
 

Consent بالعربي Part 2

Summary
In this episode of Sultry and Sacred, hosts Cinderella and Venus delve into the complexities of sexuality, consent, and emotional health. They explore the anger and sadness surrounding societal expectations, the importance of consent in relationships, and the myths surrounding marriage. The conversation also touches on the impact of cultural influences on personal relationships and the significance of communication in navigating desire and rejection. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they aim to empower listeners to embrace their autonomy and challenge societal norms. In this conversation, Cinderella and Venus explore the complexities of personal responsibility in relationships, the importance of human education regarding body safety, and the societal myths surrounding sexuality. They emphasize the need for open communication and consent, the psychological effects of childhood conditioning, and the empowerment of children to express themselves. The discussion also highlights the role of parents in fostering independence and the journey towards self-respect and freedom.
 

How To Repair after Rupture in Relationships

Summary
This conversation delves into the complexities of relationships, focusing on the themes of rupture and repair. The speakers explore how conflicts arise, the importance of understanding attachment styles, and the role of the nervous system in navigating these challenges. They discuss the Four Horsemen of Conflict as identified by Dr. Gottman and emphasize the need for internal shifts before attempting to repair relationships. The conversation also touches on the significance of physical intimacy in the context of emotional healing and the transformative power of conflict. In this conversation, Venus and Cinderella explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on the themes of rupture and repair. They discuss how astrology can be a tool for understanding relationship dynamics, the role of sex in navigating conflict, and practical strategies for repairing relationships. The conversation also delves into recognizing when a relationship may no longer be salvageable and the importance of self-awareness in making these decisions. Ultimately, they emphasize the significance of communication, emotional safety, and the need for both partners to engage in the repair process.
 

Sexual Myths: Busted!

In this enlightening conversation, Cinderella and Venus tackle some of the most pervasive myths surrounding sex, from misconceptions about male and female sexual desire to the myths surrounding orgasms, size, and kinks. They emphasize the importance of sexual agency, body positivity, and the need to dispel harmful myths that perpetuate shame and misinformation. The discussion encourages listeners to embrace their sexuality and understand the complexities of sexual experiences beyond societal norms.
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Toxic Masculinity in Arabic Part I

In this episode, the conversation delves into the complexities of masculine and feminine energies, exploring the historical and societal shifts that have influenced male identity and relationships. The discussion highlights the clash between these energies, the evolution of male identity, and the impact of toxic masculinity. The importance of rites of passage and community support for men is emphasized, alongside the influence of contemporary figures like Andrew Tate on societal perceptions of masculinity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of trust, gender dynamics, and the challenges of masculinity in modern relationships. They explore the roots of toxic masculinity, the importance of emotional control, and the need for discernment in navigating interpersonal connections. The discussion emphasizes the significance of awareness and the necessity for societal change to foster healthier relationships.
 
كريم معالج نفسي متخصص في العلاج السلوكي المعرفي وتحليل المعاملات (CBT & Transactional Analysis)،Meditation facilitator  ومُعالج لهوية الجندر والجنس،not conversion therapyوبيشتغل في المجال الروحي بقلب مفتوح بقاله أكتر من 10 سنين.وممارس لدمج الطاقات الذكورية والأنثوية في النفس والعلاقات.
وشريكي في مشروع walks with the Netjeru .
Takeaways
The clash between masculine and feminine energies is a significant issue in relationships.Historical models of male and female roles are no longer applicable today.Toxic masculinity stems from societal pressures and expectations placed on men.Rites of passage are crucial for men to connect with their identities.The evolution of male identity is influenced by societal changes and expectations.Men often feel the need to control situations to feel safe.Community support for men is essential for healthy emotional expression.Figures like Andrew Tate reflect societal issues regarding masculinity.The reward system in society often promotes unhealthy behaviors in men.Self-awareness is key to understanding and evolving gender dynamics. Trust is the foundation of all relationships.Men and women both possess strength and vulnerability.Toxic masculinity arises from societal misunderstandings.Emotional control is a powerful tool in relationships.Healthy expression of anger is essential for communication.Trust issues often lead to controlling behaviors.Societal norms need to evolve for healthier dynamics.The illusion of fixing others can be detrimental.Self-discovery is a continuous journey for everyone.Discernment is key in understanding emotions and actions.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Masculine and Feminine Energies03:46 Exploring the Clash of Energies10:34 The Evolution of Male Identity20:27 Understanding Toxic Masculinity26:08 The Role of Rites of Passage39:33 The Impact of Societal Changes46:47 The Influence of Figures like Andrew Tate01:03:04 The Foundation of Trust01:04:10 Understanding Gender Dynamics01:05:18 The Complexity of Masculinity01:06:12 Cultural Influences on Relationships01:08:07 Power and Protection in Relationships01:10:06 Toxic Masculinity and Its Roots01:12:17 Emotional Control and Expression01:14:30 The Balance of Anger and Peace01:17:40 Power Dynamics in Relationships01:20:59 Misconceptions About Anger01:23:40 Trust and Control in Relationships01:26:06 The Role of Awareness in Relationships01:29:39 The Need for Change in Societal Norms01:32:23 The Illusion of Fixing Others01:36:21 The Journey of Self-Discovery01:40:21 Rethinking Masculinity01:43:45 Returning to Our Spiritual Roots01:49:35 The Importance of Discernment